Frequently Asked Questions
Everything families want to know about Butterfly Home Care — honest, straightforward answers.
GETTING STARTED
How do I get started or request services?
Getting started is simple. Reach out by phone or through our website to schedule a free consultation. We listen to your situation, answer your questions, and learn about your loved one’s needs and daily routines. From there, we conduct an assessment and build a personalized care plan before any services begin. There is no pressure and no obligation — just an honest conversation about how we can help.
How quickly can care begin?
What information do you need from us to get started?
To get started, it helps to have a general picture of your loved one’s needs, diagnosis, daily routine, and any existing care plans or therapy recommendations. If you have a Person-Centered Plan (PCP) or documentation from a school or therapist, that is helpful but not required. Our team will guide you through the intake process step by step.
Can we meet the caregiver before services officially begin?
What does the first week of care typically look like?
The first week is about building familiarity and trust. The caregiver follows the care plan while getting to know the individual’s preferences, communication style, and daily rhythms. We check in with families early and often during this period to make sure everything is going well and to adjust anything that is not quite right.
SERVICES & WHAT TO EXPECT
What does Autism Care include?
- Supervision and safety monitoring
- Help with routines and transitions
- Sensory-sensitive care and environmental support
- Skill building — brushing teeth, bathing, dressing, meal prep, laundry, and more
- Social skills, communication support, and emotional regulation coaching
- Behavior support and calm de-escalation
- Companionship and community engagement
- Transportation to school, therapy, or community activities
- Respite support for parents and caregivers
Do you support children, teenagers, and adults?
Yes. We serve individuals across all age groups — children, teenagers, and adults. Care plans are tailored to the individual’s age, stage of development, and personal goals, whether that means school support for a child or independent living skills for an adult.
Is care provided only in the home, or also in the community?
Yes. Depending on the care plan, location, and applicable facility or program rules, care may be provided in a private residence, senior living community, group home, or while staying with family. Support may also extend into the community for appointments, errands, and activities.
What types of disabilities do you support?
- Autism spectrum disorder
- Intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD)
- Down syndrome
- Cerebral palsy
- Traumatic brain injury (TBI)
- Physical disabilities and mobility limitations
- Other conditions affecting daily functioning and independence
Is there a minimum number of hours or days required?
There is no standard long-term minimum. The schedule is based on your family’s specific needs and situation, whether that’s a few hours a week or around-the-clock support. We’ll explain the options available in your area before care begins.
Do you require a long-term contract?
Service agreements and commitment requirements vary based on the client’s care needs, service program, and local Butterfly Home Care location. Please contact your local office to discuss service terms.
CAREGIVERS & TRAINING
Are caregivers specially trained for autism and developmental disabilities?
Yes. Every Butterfly caregiver completes our Butterfly Certified Caregiver program before being assigned to any client. Training is specifically designed to support individuals with autism, intellectual and developmental disabilities, and other care needs. Core training modules include:
- Person-centered care and disability understanding
- Introduction to autism spectrum disorders and IDD
- Positive behavior support and de-escalation
- Daily living skills and independence training
- Communication strategies and relationship building
- Seizure response and safe transfers
- Fall prevention, infection control, and emergency preparedness
- HIPAA, abuse recognition, and professional conduct
Are caregivers trained in CPR and First Aid, and do they complete background checks?
How are caregivers matched to clients?
Matching is based on the individual’s care needs, communication style, personality, sensory preferences, and daily routines. We take this seriously because a good match makes a meaningful difference in outcomes. Supervisors and care coordinators are involved in the matching process and remain actively engaged throughout the care relationship.
What if we do not feel the caregiver is a good fit?
Will we always have the same caregiver?
CARE PLANNING & PERSONALIZATION
How personalized is the care?
Do you work alongside families, schools, and therapists?
Can care plans be adjusted as my loved one's needs change?
Absolutely. Care plans are not static documents. We regularly review and update plans in collaboration with families and supervisors to make sure services continue to align with the individual’s goals, safety, and quality of life. If you notice something is not working or needs to change, contact your care coordinator and we will address it promptly.
My loved one has a very rigid routine. Will caregivers follow it exactly?
Caregivers make every effort to follow established routines carefully, especially for individuals with autism and developmental disabilities who depend on predictability. Before care begins, we document the routines that matter most and introduce any necessary changes gradually and thoughtfully.
SPECIFIC SITUATIONS & CONCERNS
My child has severe behaviors — meltdowns, aggression, or self-injury. Can you handle that?
This is one of the most important questions families ask, and we want to answer it honestly. Our caregivers are trained in positive behavior support, de-escalation, and behavior support plans. We do not use punitive approaches. We work with families and, when appropriate, behavioral specialists to understand the function behind behaviors and respond in ways that are safe, calm, and consistent. That said, we review each situation individually to make sure we can provide safe and appropriate support before services begin.
My family member is non-verbal. How do caregivers communicate with them?
Butterfly Home Care recognizes that every person communicates differently. During the initial assessment, we learn about the client’s communication preferences, routines, and commonly used words, gestures, visual cues, or devices. Relevant information is included in the care plan and shared with the assigned caregiver. Caregiver experience and service availability vary by location and are evaluated based on each client’s individual needs.
What if my loved one refuses care or does not want a caregiver in the home?
This is more common than families expect, and we approach it with patience. We take time to introduce the caregiver gradually, follow the individual’s lead, and build trust slowly rather than forcing engagement. In most cases, with the right match and consistent approach, individuals become comfortable over time. We also work closely with families to understand what tends to help and what to avoid.
My loved one has both a disability and a medical condition. Can you support both?
We can support individuals who have complex needs, including those with co-occurring medical conditions, as long as the medical support required does not need a licensed medical professional. Our caregivers are trained in areas like seizure response, safe transfers, fall prevention, and general health and safety monitoring. We will be transparent with you about what we can and cannot safely provide for your specific situation.
Can you support someone who uses a wheelchair or has significant mobility needs?
My loved one is transitioning out of school-age services. Can Butterfly help?
Can Butterfly support someone who lives alone or semi-independently?
Can a caregiver support more than one child or family member in the same household?
In some situations, yes. This depends on the individual needs of each person and the level of supervision each requires. We review these situations carefully to make sure every individual receives safe, attentive, and appropriate support. Contact us to discuss your specific household situation and we will work with you on the right approach.
COST, FUNDING & INSURANCE
How much does care cost?
The cost of care depends on the type of support needed, the number of hours per week, and when services occur. We are transparent about our rates before care begins — no hidden fees or surprises. Contact us for a personalized quote based on your situation.
Is financial assistance or funding available?
What payment options do you accept?
We accept several payment options:
- Private Pay — credit cards, debit cards, and direct bank payments
- Long-Term Care (LTC) Insurance — we work with families who use long-term care insurance and can assist with the documentation needed to support a claim
- Veterans Benefits — veterans and surviving spouses may have access to benefits or programs that can help cover eligible in-home care; eligibility and Butterfly’s participation vary by program and location
- Medicaid Waivers — in Virginia, including the CCC Plus Waiver and Virginia’s Developmental Disability (DD) Waivers (Building Independence, Family and Individual Supports, and Community Living); in Georgia, programs such as NOW and COMP for individuals with disabilities; availability and participation vary by location
If you are unsure what funding options may be available to you, we are happy to help you understand your options and connect you with the appropriate resources.
RELIABILITY, COMMUNICATION & OVERSIGHT
What happens if our regular caregiver is sick or unavailable?
How do families stay informed about how sessions are going?
Ongoing communication with families is a core part of how we operate. Caregivers document their visits and report any notable changes or observations. Your care coordinator stays in regular contact and provides updates. If something important happens during a session — a behavioral change, a health concern, or a positive milestone — we make sure you hear about it promptly. You are always welcome to reach out to your coordinator at any time.
How do I know the caregiver is actually doing their job when I am not home?
Our supervisors conduct regular check-ins and oversight visits to ensure caregivers are following the care plan and meeting expectations. Caregivers document each visit, and our coordination team reviews this regularly. If you ever have questions or concerns about what is happening during a session, contact your coordinator directly — we take those conversations seriously.
How do I raise a concern or give feedback?
Contact your care coordinator directly at any time. We take all feedback seriously, investigate promptly, and follow up with you on what was done. If you feel your concern has not been addressed, you can escalate to agency leadership. Our goal is for every family to feel heard, respected, and confident in the care their loved one is receiving.
What is your policy if a caregiver does something wrong or inappropriate?
FLEXIBILITY & CHANGES OVER TIME
Can services be paused, reduced, or stopped if our situation changes?
Yes. We offer flexible scheduling and understand that life changes. If your needs increase, decrease, or shift temporarily, we will adjust the care plan accordingly. We ask for reasonable notice so we can plan appropriately, but we will always work with you — not against you — when circumstances change.
Can services be provided during school hours?
Depending on the client’s needs, service location, caregiver availability, and agreed-upon pricing, caregivers may provide support during approved medical appointments, therapy visits, community activities, or other outings. Transportation, school-related assistance, and drop-off or pick-up services are evaluated individually and may require additional fees. Services are also subject to care-plan requirements, authorization, insurance coverage, facility policies, and applicable state or local regulations. Please contact your local Butterfly Home Care office to discuss availability and pricing.
What if my child's needs change significantly as they get older?
We plan for this. Care plans are reviewed and updated regularly as individuals grow, develop, and their needs evolve. Whether a child needs more independence support as a teenager, or an adult is working toward greater self-sufficiency, we adjust the level and type of care accordingly. You do not need to start over — we grow with your family.
Can a caregiver help an adult family member find a job or volunteer opportunity?
LOCATIONS & AVAILABILITY
What areas does Butterfly Home Care serve?
Butterfly Home Care serves families in Northern Virginia, and the Northwest Dallas/Fort Worth and Northeast Tarrant County area in Texas.
In Virginia, we serve Loudoun County (Ashburn, Leesburg, Sterling, Purcellville, South Riding, and surrounding communities), Arlington County (Clarendon, Ballston, Rosslyn, Pentagon City, and surrounding neighborhoods), Fairfax County (Fairfax, Vienna, Reston, Herndon, McLean, Tysons, Centreville, Chantilly, Burke, Springfield, and more), and the Manassas and Prince William County area (Manassas Park, Bristow, Gainesville, Haymarket, Woodbridge, Dumfries, and surrounding communities).
In Texas, our Dallas/Fort Worth franchise serves Grapevine, Colleyville, Southlake, Keller, Trophy Club, Far North Fort Worth, and surrounding communities.
Not sure if we cover your area? Call us and we will let you know right away.
What hours are services available?
FOR PARENTS & FAMILIES
I feel guilty asking for help. Is respite care really okay for my family?
Yes — and this is one of the most important things we want families to hear. Caring for a loved one with a disability is one of the most demanding things a person can do. Taking a break is not giving up; it is how you sustain the capacity to keep showing up. Respite care exists specifically because families need rest, time, and space to stay healthy themselves.
We have had bad experiences with other agencies. What makes this different?
We hear this often, and we take it seriously. The most common frustrations families describe are inconsistent caregivers, poor communication, undertrained staff, and feeling like just a number. At Butterfly, we address these directly: we prioritize caregiver consistency, train our team specifically for autism and developmental disabilities, stay in active communication with families, and treat every client as an individual with a real care plan — not a schedule to fill. We cannot promise perfection, but we can promise transparency and accountability when things need to be addressed.
How is Butterfly different from hiring a private caregiver on my own?
When you hire privately, you take on the responsibilities of screening, training, tax withholding, backup coverage, and liability on your own. With Butterfly, that’s handled for you. Our caregivers are background-checked, trained through our certification program, and supervised, and their work is covered through the local agency’s insurance. If an assigned caregiver is unavailable, our coordination team works to arrange qualified backup coverage.
Is Butterfly Home Care licensed and insured?
Butterfly Home Care locations operate in accordance with applicable state and local requirements and maintain appropriate insurance coverage. Our caregivers are screened, trained, and qualified to provide safe, consistent care. We are happy to provide details specific to your state during our initial consultation.

